One of my pet peeves is when anyone begins a talk or speaking assignment in an apologetic or self-debasing manner. I can't count the number of times I have heard someone start by saying that he or she left it until the last minute or that they weren't experts on the subject or that it wasn't likely to be a very good talk, etc. To me, that is like giving the listening audience permission to just tune out and not pay attention to one thing you say. If I didn't want to listen to that person or what they had to say, I think I would just stay home. Prepared or not, expert or not--just do your best and let me take from it what I will. Don't tell me how to think about it before you even give it to me!
So, that will be the mission statement for my blog. I will continue to believe that if you actually come to visit my site, whatever I have to say is of interest--even if it is only of very slight interest. So be prepared to get to know my life.
Listen to John Mayer's "Say What You Need to Say"
Every little past frustration
Take all of your so-called problems
Better put ‘em in quotations
Say what you need to say
Say what you need to say
Say what you need to say
Say what you need to say
Walking like a one man army
Fighting with the shadows in your head
Living out the same old moment
Knowing you'd be better off instead
If you could only
Say what you need to say
Say what you need to say
Say what you need to say
Say what you need to say
Have no fear for giving in
Have no fear for giving over
You better know that in the end
It's better to say too much
Than never to say what you need to say
Even if your hands are shaking
And your faith is broken
Even as your eyes are closing
Do it with a heart wide open
Wide
Say what you need to say
Say what you need to say
Say what you need to say
Say what you need to say
I look forward to whatever you have to say! I'm sure it'll be very interesting. :)
ReplyDeleteHooray! Bring it on! I'm totally interested in what you have to say. Plus, you've got cute kids, right? So, some pictures of them would put a smile on my face. By the way, I agree with you about self-deprecating talks.
ReplyDeleteJust remember that someday you can print these posts all out and save them for posterity... just like a journal. That helps me sometimes, but I agree that I wonder why anyone reads me sometimes. There's a lot of pressure there but I think it's mostly self-induced. I always want to hear more from you!
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with you about self-debasing openings. The one I hate the most is "I started working on this talk a couple of hours ago." It's almost like they are saying "If this speech sucks it's because I procrastinated so don't blame me." Just say it and let the audience decide.
ReplyDeleteLeslie, We're not experts on giving comments (lol), but we really enjoy reading the posts.
ReplyDeleteDoug and Kati